If you've been hit with a torn relationship without a formal break-up, the realization may be as painful as a bolo knife plunged into your heart.
It hurts, for sure, but moving forward by winning your ex back is less painful than nurturing the pain.
Instead of crying, devise a plan to save your relationship.
Here are some helpful tips to win your ex back: 1.
Always make sure that you are always well-groomed and pleasing to the eyes.
Just because you feel dumped you won't find any reason to appear beautiful.
Be always beautiful.
In this way, he or she may realize that you are not harboring any ill-feeling towards him or her.
You may be, if that is that case, but do your best not to show it.
2.
Exude confidence, strong yet a cheerful personality.
If you've got a chance to improve intellectually and socially, do so.
Show him or her that you will continue to live and improve yourself even without him/her at your side.
3.
It helps not to nag or indicate any signs of jealousy or insecurity.
Instead, show him that you still care for her or him by asking how she or he is doing.
Even a simple text message will do.
It may be better to tell him/her personally these magic words: "I love you.
" These can be the magic words to save your relationship.
4.
If there is a third party involved, don't let your insecurities get the better of you.
Show off our competitive side but do not show anger or disrespect towards the person who caused your break-up.
5.
It may do very well to save your relationship by asking him/her occasionally for a date.
Yes - a date - may tell it all.
Listen to everything that he/she says.
Listening with all your heart will do best to save your relationship.
6.
Understand his point.
If the cause of the break-up is career-related, then bear in mind that he/she might be saving it up for the most precious moment.
Tell him/her that you will always be there to wait for him/her for that most precious moment.
7.
Try not to bad-mouth or say anything that will taint the character of the person who has snatched your "beloved" away from you.
If you do so, you risk losing him/her and ruin the chance for a make-up between you and your love.
More often, people who have gone through this process resort to telling their friends negative things about this third party.
They say that this helps them release the anxiety and pain that they felt after the break-up.
For me, it should not be done in any way.
I am sure there are a lot ways not mentioned here that can help save your relationship.
Just bear in mind that showing anger towards your ex might do more harm than good in your pursuit to save your relationship.
Try to remain calm and composed; for a person with peace of mind can effectively devise a plan to win his/her ex back.
Chances are these plans or strategy worked most of the time.
Take these from a person who have undergone it all.
Most of all, pray for divine assistance.
Good luck for your quest to win your ex back!