Right after the breakup you are sitting there with a stunned look on your face and thinking my girlfriend dumped me, what can I do now? I don't want to beat you over the head anymore than she already has, but old buddy you should have seen it coming. You thought you had her all wrapped up and she would be there whenever you called. I'll tell you women can be mysterious and highly unpredictable. They require a lot of care and attention. That is most of the time. But right now your best bet is not to give her either care or attention.

When you are facing the situation of my girlfriend dumped me, what can I do - the answer is nothing for a while. She is like a nuclear bomb at present and if you get near her the explosion could be awesome. So for about two or three weeks don't contact her in anyway. Don't send flowers, gifts or cards. No phone calls, emails or text messages either. Leave her alone! She won't be hooking up with some other guy, you have probably ruined her taste for men for now.

When you give her some time to think and get herself together after the breakup, you have won the first round in the battle to get your girlfriend back. She will respect you and feel better toward you because you showed the compassion and respect for her not to be harassing her at a time when she needed quiet the most. With this gesture you will be opening the door to becoming friends with her again.

When faced by the problem of my girlfriend dumped me, what can I do, you must some way become part of her life again. What better way than becoming her friend. I know most guys don't want to be lowered from lover to friend, but sometimes it is better to sink a little in order to rise again. This is one of those times. You can start worming your way back into her heart by sending an email or card just saying you were thinking of her and hope things are going well. If you don't hear back from her in a week or so, give her a phone call and apologize for the things you did to hurt her and see if she will meet you for coffee. Tell her that you will always be her best buddy and she can call on you anytime.

Take it slow and don't push. She still loves you and just needs time to realize it.