Humans are humans.
We are all different.
There are some similarities between individuals, but no matter how compatible they are the differences are there and will show up in the behavior of the individual towards others.
Marriage is a relationship between two people who agreed to accept each other in all circumstances for the rest of their lives.
It's a sacred contract that ties two souls for what's supposed to be life-time.
When circumstances change people also change.
These changes include behavioral ones towards each other in all aspects of life.
According to their sacred contract they are supposed to accept each other even when they don't like those changes.
Because of this kind of commitment stresses show up and affect their general health, including their mental health.
It doesn't necessarily mean that one or both will go insane, but these changes could affect how much emotions each one has for the other.
The disagreements are going to be there for as long as humans exist.
And each conflict no matter how big it sounds there is a way to work it out so that the marriage stays intact with hopes that after the stresses go away things go back to normal.
Only one thing can not be fixed.
Once you do it, you can start figuring out how to split the house and who will take the custody of the children.
Never, ever, ladies, insult your man's manhood.
Manhood is not all about bed performance or whatever related issues.
Manhood is about the ability to be the leader of this small family.
Manhood is about the ability to provide for the family, make the right decisions, and take the necessary measures to protect this family.
You can communicate your concerns with your husband politely, without making him feel like a loser.
Make it clear that your concern is not about his ability to do things, but more about exploring other options that could be more beneficial to your family.
Believe it or not, it makes a big difference.
Once you start questioning the areas where your husband assumes to be the decision maker, your marriage's just got one powerful push towards the divorce lawyer's office.
What's even worse is spreading your insult to your husband's manhood among your family and friends.
This is a killer to any marriage.
Do this and you're guaranteed two things: a divorce, and a personal enemy for the rest of your life.
You don't want that to happen, especially if you have kids together.