Reconciling with your ex girlfriend is not an easy thing to do.  There usually is no magic bullet,  no 1-2-3 that you can do and she will magically be back with you and never again will you have to worry about losing her.  The truth is,  that relationships go through their ups and their downs,  and when there is a crack in the relationship and it needs repairing,  then there can be some challenges and hiccups that come with the territory.

Here are a couple of tips to make things go a little more smoothly and help you reconcile with your ex girlfriend as soon as you possibly can:

1.  You need to be open to make some changes.

Now,  you probably will get some advice from people around you that you have to change in the relationship,  but you also have to make some changes in yourself.  Relationships can reveal a lot about yourself and if you are feeling like you are lost without your girlfriend in your life,  then maybe you need to also build a social life that will support you in good times and bad.  When you have a supportive social life,  it can make things seem a lot less dramatic,  and that can put you in the right frame of mind to win her back.

2.  You need to be able to show your ex girlfriend that you are worth the challenge.

To do this,  you need to be able to tap into what made you attractive to her in the beginning and expand on that.  A woman will put up with a lot of stuff as long as she thinks that you are "worth" it.  The moment that she is unsure of this,  that is when she starts looking at the doorway.  You don't want her to look there.  So,  show off your best points to your ex girlfriend and treat her like you would if you had just met her.  You know,  back when you made sure that you were the most impressive that you could be?

3.  Plan out what you are going to do to reconcile with her.

Going with the flow and just seeing what happens does have its time and its place,  however,  if you want to win her back for GOOD- you need to have a plan that you can put into place.  Most men don't have any kind of plan to get their girlfriend back.  They want it to happen,  but they do not know what to do.  Well,  you can be one of the ones that DOES know what to do.