Is she still wearing the ring? If she is still wearing the ring, that means there's still a chance.
Women tend to hold on the ring until the bitter end, and if she still has it on, it means it isn't the end.
At least not for her! Whose fault was it anyway? Why did the marriage fall apart in the first place? Is it something you did? Something she did? Identify the problem, and then you can look for a solution.
Sometimes it can be as simple as a lack of communication on both sides, and because no one knew exactly what was going on, conclusions were drawn and it ended in separation.
Show her what she's missing She walked down the aisle with you, and in front of your friends and family, vowed to love you forever.
No matter what happened, there is part of her that belongs to you.
Show her that you're still the man who took that vow with; show her you're still the man she pledged her life to.
Talk to a professional It couldn't hurt to get some professional help.
There are therapists and counselors who specialize in this area, and because they've worked with many couples going through the same things, they have the benefit of multiple experiences.
You would be wise to seek some help, and if you can get her to go with you, that's even better.
What do her parents say? Her parents know her just as well as you do, if not better.
Talking to them may give you some insight into what's going on in her mind.
Maybe she's hurt and confused.
Maybe she felt that separation was the only way to deal with it.
She more than likely discussed it with her parents, so go to them, and see what you can find out.
Communication So many times relationships fall apart because of lack of communication.
The void between two people can fill up with things not said, and soon, it's almost impossible to talk at all.
Go to her, let her know how you feel and see what you can do to repair the damage that's been done.
Give her time While you have been hurt and trying to come to terms with everything, so has she.
Your feelings on the subject are probably new to her, so give her time to process this new information and come to a conclusion on her own.
The worst thing you can do is rush her.
It will ultimately push her away.
So, take a step back and give her the time she needs.