Wouldn't it be nice if there were a cure for a broken heart? What if there were some way to get over the pain and heartbreak of losing the one you love? Fortunately, there is.
Though your lover has moved on with life, yours doesn't have to fall apart.
Your heart may be breaking, but the good news is that life does go on.
And yes, there is a cure for a broken heart-it's called time.
You know the scenario.
You've broken up, and all you want to do is mope.
You want to curl up on the couch with your robe and a bowl of ice cream.
You want to forget about everything, namely your ex.
But curing a broken heart doesn't mean you have to feel sorry for yourself.
You do, however, have to be willing to step outside your comfort zone and get involved in activities to get your mind off your ex.
Realize that not everyone is going to approve of your decision to move on with your life.
Maybe your relatives really liked your ex and are criticizing your for the breakup.
If this is the case, explain to them that this was the best decision for the both of you and that it will be okay.
Put yourself first.
Especially after a breakup, you are going through some pretty intense emotions, and others may see this as an opportunity to put some demands on you.
But right now, you need to focus on yourself and on healing.
Treat yourself to something.
Buying yourself a little something special can make you feel good.
If you're trying to cure a broken heart, and have no one to spoil, who says you can't spoil yourself? Treat yourself to a fancy dinner.
Or if you can't bear the thought of going out alone, order delivery and treat yourself to a movie marathon.
This is time to focus on you.
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