All of us must have gone through this at some time or the other in our lives.
A man shows an initial interest but then for no apparent reason just backs away.
Makes you feel dejected, disappointed and very confused doesn't it? If you want to get a man interested in you again here are a few ways to do just that.
Don't look like you are in need of attention Firstly, don't look like you are in need of his attention.
Hang out with your friends, be seen with a date or two or generally look busy when you know you might bump into him.
Be confident and simply acknowledge him with a smile and no more.
Do more initially and he will run away thinking that you are a desperate woman.
Begin a casual conversation Let sometime pass and then start a casual conversation with him.
Just saying hello is good for starters.
The idea is to break the ice initially so that later you can have a full fledged conversation.
Make him feel comfortable When you start talking to him make him feel comfortable being around you.
Don't even for a moment make him feel like you want to get him interested in you again.
So don't even skirt around the topic initially.
Speak of everything else that you know he finds interesting so that he begins to like talking to you.
Offer to be friends Make him an offer to be friends once again.
Tell him that you like his company and is good fun hanging out with him.
He will not be able to refuse this offer and thus the stage is set for stage two- reconciliation.
Get talking Once you both get comfortable as friends it is time to address the issue.
Now you have to make sure that you come across as very matter of fact and nonchalant about this whole thing.
You don't want him to be on his guard with you.
So be as casual as you can and get talking of why he backed off.
Listen to his point of view Don't probe too much but listen to what he has to say.
Don't interrupt and draw your conclusions till he has finished saying what he has to.
Also don't make him see that his criticism has affected you in a negative manner.
Take it all in as constructive criticism.
Show him his wrong perception Now is the time to show him how wrong he was in his perception.
Now that you know what his problem is, it is your turn to address the issue and show him what a wonderful person you are and how wrong his perception was.
He will be interested in you once again.