When people break up and try to get back together, they usually don't last.
Why is that? It's because they haven't changed anything about their relationship since they broke up.
Sure they're officially together again, but the actions and emotions that caused the tension in the first place are still there.
Want to get back together with your true love? These 3 things have to happen first: 1.
Stop any actions that make your ex not want to be with you.
In the very least find the reason behind those feelings so that you can overcome them together.
2.
Avoid talking about or doing anything that reminds you of the break up or the problems that caused the break up.
Bringing back these feelings before the feelings of love and happiness sometimes shows that she'll feel those emotions every time they see you, which definitely is not true.
You want to show her that it's OK to move on together.
3.
Change the dynamics of the relationship.
They obviously still feel strong emotions towards you, they did fall in love with you before.
Love doesn't just get erased, it stays with you forever just waiting to be free again.
Change the dynamics from a tense break up to the free, fun, and flirty stages of when you were first falling in love.
You can get your love back when she sees the person she fell in love with in the first place.
This last point is the most important.
When you've taken the focus off of the break up and back onto each other, there's nothing standing in the way of getting back together with your true love, that's when to go for it.