Show him that you are thrilled to be single again Don't let him see that you are hurt.
You will have to pull your self together.
This means that you do your crying in private and get it over and done with! Go out and make an effort to enjoy yourself.
Tell yourself that you deserve better! Psyche yourself into believing that you are going to be really happy without him and you will! He will hate to see you getting on so well! Pretend that your social calendar is full! Once you make new friends don't hesitate to go out with them.
Lead a busy life and let him see that your social calendar is full! Once he realizes that you are being bombarded with invitations every weekend - he will get extremely jealous.
Ignore him completely while you are about it.
Get your male friends to sing your praises to him Confide in a few of your close and trusted friends.
Arrange for them to sing your praises and compliment you when they are in his company.
He will begin to wonder if they are talking about you or someone else! Imagine his surprise when he finds out that you are being admired by other males.
Become popular with his friends Endeavor to become friends with his friends.
Once you earn their respect and admiration - they are bound to talk positively about you in his hearing.
He will get jealous and envious and will also begin to regret breaking up with you and breaking your heart.
The best part is that he will realize that your heart is not broken anymore and that will rile him! Ignore his stares and messages Once he realizes that he has made the biggest mistake of his life in breaking up with you he may try to get back with you.
This is the time to ignore him completely.
Treat him like he deserves to be treated and let him repent of his ways and attitudes that make him such a loser.
Throw a party and leave him out! You could show him in a subtle manner that you don't need him anymore to have the time of your life.
Prove that you have gotten over him and have enough of friends to make your life worthwhile.
Throw a sumptuous party and invite just about everybody - except him! He is going to go crazy regretting his behavior.
Look insanely happy with your new friend Get friendly with a guy who is obviously a hundred times better than your ex.
Enjoy being with your new guy and be genuinely happy.
This way you will not have to pretend to be happy and anyone - your ex included - looking at you will have to know that things are going well for you.
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