Relationships always bring the best and the worst out of you. When things are going smoothly, you feel amazing and on top of the world. However, when your wife told you she doesn't love you anymore, it can definitely bring the worst out of you. You're unsure how to react to it; whether it's personal or whether she's seeing somebody else. You're angry but at the same time completely shocked that she even said it. You still love your wife, so remain upbeat and you can make things better.

Your wife used to say how much she loves you and how you used to be soul mates. You both did everything together, but all of a sudden communication broke down. Perhaps when your wife was feeling down or ill you used to comfort her. Perhaps when she used to hold a conversation you used to take interest. Perhaps when your wife wanted to do something you used to go out and do it. The key words are 'used to'.

You 'used' to do things but aren't now. Women love attention and when you're not showing it they begin to take it personally that you no longer want them. When your wife tells you she doesn't love you anymore, it could be due to the lack of attention you're showing them.

When your wife doesn't love you anymore, it's important that you change your attitude completely. You need to learn to appreciate and show attention to your wife just like you used to at the beginning of the relationship. You need to make her feel wanted and special once again. Every time you ignore them or show no interest, you're only pushing them further and further away. If you want a successful marriage, appreciate your wife!