How do I get my wife back - you are constantly thinking about ways to do this.
  There are ways to get her back, but you must be willing to invest time and effort into it.
  If you can commit to these things, then here are some tips to help you get her back: You must be patient.
  You are dealing with hurt feelings, and these take time to heal.
  You can get your wife back by showing her that your marriage deserves another chance.
  If you know the reason(s) why your marriage ended, then make every effort to learn how to head off those problems, before they start.
Every marriage is different.
  Therefore, every solution to problems is different.
  What works for some couples may not work for you.
  Take time to look deep within yourself, and think clearly about what went wrong in your marriage.
  Was it something you've done?  How could it have been avoided?  Was it something your spouse has done?  What could have been different? You have to think about everything.
  You have to devise a plan when trying to get your ex wife back.
  Plan what you will say.
  Think of her possible reactions.
  List as many as possible, so you will be prepared for whatever may come.
  Even if she seems to be ignoring you, she is still noticing your efforts.
  She is probably just afraid that she will get hurt again.
  Don't be pushy, but be persistent.
  When you really want to get your wife back, you have to remember to have patience.
  Depending on the reason for your separation, it may take a little time, or it may take longer.
No matter the time range, isn't she worth it?