You know the worst four words you could ever hear from someone you love? "We need to talk.
" And after happily dating a guy for a year and half, that's exactly what I heard, when I was least expecting it.
I already knew something bad was up.
Lately, we've been fighting over the slightest of reasons, and I already felt him slipping away.
When we sat down to talk, he said we should just go back to being friends.
I wasn't surprised, but I did have a hard time absorbing it.
Then it hit me.
I was hurt pretty bad.
I couldn't accept what had happened, and that's when I realized I was still madly in love with him.
I did all sorts of crazy things, including attempting to write a love letter to tell him how I felt.
Fortunately, I was advised against this and informed that it was a bad idea to even keep in touch at all.
The lady, whose advice I followed, was a pro...
she explained that sending a love letter made me look too desperate and could make my ex lose respect for me.
So, I ended up not writing a letter, much less keeping in touch with my ex.
Time went by, and as I could feel my heart healing, I could also see that my ex was over me.
Throughout the course of the relationship, I had become a different person, and I certainly wasn't a better one.
I understood why he could have fallen out of love.
I wanted to bring back the girl he once fell for, so that's what I worked on.
I seriously did some soul-searching and worked hard on being the person I once was.
It's true what they say.
Time does heal all wounds, and this is true for any failed relationship.
I chose not to waste my life away pining for him, and waiting for him to call me.
It does get tiring, believe me.
I decided to live my life the way I did before I met him.
I guess this worked, because he saw the better side of me.
He made a move to get back with me, and I was happy to take him back.
I guess he thought better him than someone else.
If you're having the same dilemma I had a year ago, try what I did.
Good luck!