If you have found yourself lonely again and in the unfortunately situation where your girlfriend has left you and you are wanting her back, stop sitting around feeling sorry for yourself and thinking how unfair life is.
This won't get them back of change anything quickly; it will only make you feel worse and miserable.
In order to get her back you need a plan and that you can follow that has been proven with thousands of other couples.
In this article we are going to take a brief look at the first critical stages of this proven plan to get your girlfriend back.
The Proven Plan Like most other guys who are in this position you have probably been thinking about what went wrong over and over.
Whatever the reason you need to define the reasons as clear as possible for many guys it is because you pushed her away by hurting her feelings or mistreating her.
You must come to terms with whatever you did you pushed her away and pleading with her that you will change and that it won't happen again simply won't work, The reason being you have probably tried this before and most people simply don't really believe people change overnight.
What To Say The next thing you need to know is what to say to her to get your girlfriend back.
You want to start off by saying sorry and that you accept the fact that you have broken up.
You could say something like this "I am sorry for...
and I understand why you wanted to break up, I respect your decision".
What you do next however is sometimes much more important than what you say.
Whatever you do, do not start to argue with her or find an excuse for your action.
You don't want to irritate her and try and persuade her to forgive you simply let her know that you accept and respect that fact that you have broken up and give her some time to calm down.
How To Get Her Back The next thing you will want to do is call her and arrange a time to meet up over dinner to discuss everything, choose a nice place and remember to compliment her as soon as you see her and make her feel special.
Let her know how you feel and that you want to be with her and are willing to work and make it work.
Just remember to be sincere.
Remind her of the good times you shared and that if you both work together you can build an even stronger relationship than you had before.
A Word Of Caution A word of warning however, it is a lot easier to end a relationship in many cases than it is to mean a broken one, it will take work and be prepared to compromise and spend more time with your girlfriend.
If you follow these steps you will get your girlfriend back.