What are the best ways to get my ex girlfriend back? Are you a man looking for an answer to that question? Are you tired of wishing you could be back with your ex? Do you want to make it happen? You can. Getting back someone after a break up may seem like a daunting task, but it's actually not that hard at all. If you understand exactly what you need to be doing to appeal to her heart, you can have her back in love with you before you know it.

Whenever you ask anyone the question, "what are the best ways to get my ex girlfriend back?" you're going to be presented with a lot of different ideas. Some people will tell you that it's best to just sit down and talk with her about what you're feeling. Still others will suggest that you need to start dating someone else so your ex girlfriend becomes so jealous she'll fight to get you back. This type of advice, although well meant, is disastrous. You have to use the break up as the main tool to win her back.

Right now you're the one feeling the bulk of the rejection because your ex isn't taking you back. It's a horrible feeling because it never goes away. The only way to get rid of it is to reunite with the person you adore. That's why you're going to use rejection as your weapon in your quest to get her back. You're going to reject your ex and make her believe that you're moving on.

This is actually quite simple and can be done while still remaining compassionate. Call your ex up and make some idle chit chat. Talk about how she is and the weather. Then tell her that you've done a lot of soul searching and you've come to the realization that breaking up was actually a good thing for both of you. Then thank her for helping you realize that and wish her well. In that one conversation you'll have shifted the feeling of rejection from yourself onto her.

The next thing you need to do to win back her love is really simple. Break off all contact with your ex girlfriend for at least a month. Don't be the one to initiate any contact at all. Let her stew in the feeling of rejection for a few weeks while you give off the impression you're over her and moving on. The more you ignore her, the more she'll think about you. If you can do it, it won't take long before she'll come to you asking to talk about the failed relationship.