After every break up, most victims either get over it or try to get back their lost love.
Everyone falls to one or the other but both are not easy because very few people are able to move on quickly with their lives after a breakup.
Before any action is carried out, it is very wise for you to think very well about the relationship, your ex, how things were and how they will be now.
When you are through with this, you might know that the break up is not a bad idea.
The basic first step if you want your ex back is to apologize if you say you want a re-union.
It is possible you might have said it severally with no positive response.
This might be that your ex thinks you just want to stop the break up and that your apology was not genuine.
If you are the one that was wrong, apologize once more and by this your ex might think this one is sincere.
They will believe that you eventually mean it this time (and it can revive your relationship if it has earlier ended) Learn to forgive if it was you ex that did something worth being sorry for.
It might be hard to forget, if it is a case of cheating, just forgive.
This step really helps to win your ex back and can help prevent problems in years to come.
Old issues might surface again in a newly revived relationship after you have won back your lost love, if you really haven't forgiven your partner for whatever reason, it will be difficult to get past anything.
There is every tendency that you would always re-open old wounds causing hurtful things.
Bringing up things of the past would not be of any need if truly you have forgiven the person.
Forgiving your partner that caused the break up would save the relationship a lot of trouble.
In winning back your lost love, showcase the reason they fell in love with 'you' and hide the 'you' that has been dumped.
Your attitude should show attributes like kindness, thoughtfulness and always try your best not to reveal bad behaviors like anger, hurt, jealousy.
Be the best you can be by concentrating on yourself more and you could win your ex back by showing him/her why they fell in love with you in the first instance.