After a breakup, you might think you have lost the love of your life for good. But love does not die overnight and your ex boyfriend still loves you. But if something upset him enough to cause the breakup, he might have buried his love for you. To bring him back fast, you just need to make him realize he still loves you.
Every relationship has its problems and sometimes it seems you would be better to call it quits. Of course one of you won't agree that breaking up is best and that causes that one to feel rejected. In this case the person feeling the pain of rejection is you. You might have also said some things that you are now sorry you said. That might make you think you should call your ex boyfriend and apologize.
But, you are not able to control your emotions and at the sound of his voice, you begin to cry and beg. When a woman cries, it always makes a man uncomfortable and so he hangs up on you. That sends your emotions into more of a spin and you start to flood him with phone calls, emails and text messages. Your ex boyfriend pulls farther away from you.
If you continue this course of action, you will lose your ex boyfriend forever. Stop and take a deep breath and get a grip on your emotions. The most effective way to make him realize he still loves you, is to take yourself out of his life completely. You can only miss something when it is gone. So, make yourself scarce and give your ex a chance to miss you.
Male psychology will tell you that men always want what they can't have. As long as you are throwing yourself at him, he won't want you. But make him think he might lose you and it becomes a different story. Show your ex boyfriend that you can do fine without him. Get involved with other interests. Take some night classes or do some volunteer work. These activities will help keep you from thinking of your ex. Go out with your friends and have a good time.
When he hears of what you are doing, your ex boyfriend will wonder how you have gotten over him so fast. He was sure you would be sitting at home, crying and waiting for him to call. The more he feels you might be slipping away, the more he will desire you. The love for you that he has buried will begin to reappear. When he begins to miss you and realize he still loves you, it will bring him back fast.