It is said that €Love is blind', but deaf and dumb it should certainly be not. People in relationships often fail to realize when their relationship has crossed the line from an argumentative to an abusive one. They mistake the abuse for intense feelings of love, care and concern and this is how they give invitation to problems and complications in their lives. They wonder how a relationship which used to be like a fairy tale romance got blown up when the reality screams on their faces.
If you are facing disturbing experiences in your relationship, it is very essential for you to know the warning signs of an abusive relationship, so that you can get yourself out of it safe and sane before it's too late. Abusive relationships can cause serious consequences if the problems involved in it are disregarded as mere feelings of possessiveness, jealousy and over caring attitude.
You have to remember, once and for always that love involves respect and in a relationship there should be no place for insecurity, doubts and physical abuse. The first step in getting out of an abusive relationship is to realize that you have the right to be treated with respect and not be physically or emotionally harmed by another person.
Warning signs of an Abusive Relationship
A path to a safer, healthier and happier life often starts with a bit of knowledge. If your partner displays the following behaviors, you may be in abusive relationships. If your partner-
1.Humiliates you and yells at you or calls you names.
2.Keeps unrealistic expectations from you and forces you to fulfil them.
3.Blames you for his/her own mistakes.
4.Controls your movement, social activity, dressing style, whom you meet, what you talk and even your work.
5.Threatens to harm you, or self-harm, if you leave the relationship.
6.Constantly becomes jealous or angry when you want to spend time with your friends.
7.Harms you physically in any way, including slapping, pushing, grabbing, shaking, smacking, kicking, and punching.
8.Says hurtful things, but later swears that he/she didn't and accuses you of "having memory problems".
9.Makes you feel guilty and forces you into believing that the problem is with you not him/her.
The above mentioned signs of an abusive relationships are only the major ones. There are many relationships involving subtle signs of abuse which go unnoticed because of a lack of awareness on the sufferer's part. This lack of awareness leads to continuation of such relationships and the problems are noticed only when one of the partners suffers from serious mental or physical injury.
How to get out of Abusive Relationships?
In order to get out of such relationships, it is very essential for the sufferer to recognize the above mentioned warning signs and to immediately speak out and take action against it. Getting out of a relationship is not a very easy thing to do. It involves complications and many kinds of fears and insecurities.
Some people choose to stay in abusive relationships, thinking one day, everything's going to be all right. They get so much emotionally attached and dependent on their partner that the thought of leaving them appears more painful than facing the partner's abusive behavior. Some other reasons which resist them to end the relationship involve low self-esteem, fear of being opted out, social or peer pressure, financial dependence on the partner and no other person to turn to.
People like these need self-confidence, hope for the future, self-esteem and a very positive attitude, in order to get out of their abusive relationship and to start looking towards their new life which can bring them inner peace, satisfaction and all the happiness of the world. For that they have to listen to the voice of their inner self, the voice of the God of their own understanding, who always shows you the right path of life and attracts things that are right for you.
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