It's normal for married couples for feeling low sometimes.
With all the stress that work, household chores and parenting responsibilities bring, a husband and wife can feel less inspired in their relationship.
What is not good is when this situation stretches for a long time leaving the couple distanced from each other emotionally and physically as well.
But there's always hope.
If a couple wants to make their marriage work and make it last for a lifetime, they can find so many ways to spice up their relationship.
What's essential is that each of them makes an effort to give inspiration and show more love to each other not necessarily in big ways but even in small ways.
Consistency is vital to ensure that the marriage is nurtured moving forward.
One of the must-do for any married couple whether they're newlyweds or have been married for several years now is to set a date night.
A date night means a husband and wife going out together with no kids in tow, just the two of them dining in their favorite restaurant, watching a good old movie at the cinema or just strolling at the park and sharing thoughts and dreams for their kids and family.
It doesn't have to be done at night only because you can do it daytime such as on a weekend when you're both off from work.
For the techie couples, relationship experts suggest creating a separate email account just for exchanging loving and flirtatious messages.
This account needs to be used for that purpose only and therefore not the one you use for communicating with friends and colleagues.
Maintaining and improving your sexual relationship should not be taken for granted.
Being busy should not be used as reason to avoid having sex with your partner.
In fact, you can actually schedule this say at least once a week just to help you connect physically with each other.
Psychologists point out that couples who are able to squeeze this on a weekly basis are more likely to improve their marital relationship and the quality of their life.
If you and your spouse tend to fight on a common issue and this has become a regular occurrence, try to avoid this at all cost and schedule it at a later time.
Self control and discipline are essential and if you succeed in this aspect, you will find out later on that it's not really worth fighting particularly when you are able to focus on what you're doing or when you start on a new endeavor.
Sharing household chores is also recommended by marriage therapists.
Research has actually shown that couples who find time to do house work together have a better sexual relationship.
This is because women are more aroused when they are able to relax and don't experience anxiety.
Husbands should take this hint if they want to enjoy better sex with their wives moving onwards.
You may find other ways to maintain that spark in your relationship.
Be consistent with it and you'll be sure to stay together for a long time.