How would it be if you could press a magic button and make him fall in love? Is there a secret key to his heart, or is it locked away forever? Is love a matter of chance, or are there things you could actually be doing to get the man of your dreams? If you've ever found yourself on the horns of these particular dilemmas, this article is for you.
There is a secret key that will unlock his heart, and the big secret is that it isn't a secret at all.
To make him fall in love, you just need to learn three very practical skills.
1 - Start Him Up Love, in case you haven't realised it by now, is all to do with emotions.
Therefore, you need to stir your man's emotions by your very presence.
Easier said than done? Not if you pay attention to your man, listen to him and find out the things that excite him.
If you can inspire him with fun and excitement, he'll start to associate those feelings with you.
Note - this doesn't mean sex, at least not in the early stages of the relationship.
Sex certainly excites men, but if you try to base your relationship on it, it will be doomed to failure.
Sex is something you add to a relationship after you've formed an emotional commitment, not before.
2 - Stand By Him To make him fall in love, you need to be his friend.
We touched on this in the first point.
Being a friend means listening to him and paying attention to him, and doing fun and exciting things together.
But the other part of being a friend is being there for the bad times as well.
So be prepared to support your man and give him a lift when he's down.
3 - Make Him Think It Was His Idea No woman has ever fallen in love with a man because he pressurized her into it, so what makes you think it's any different the other way around? Pressure of any sort never works in matters of the heart, so resist any urges to cajole, bully or otherwise hurry the relationship along.
Men aren't hugely comfortable with their emotions, and tend to get scared if things go too far too fast.
So ease back, and let him set the pace.
As the relationship develops, and he starts to fall in love with you, he'll feel it was his idea.
In a Zen sort of way, you make him fall in love when you stop trying to make him fall in love.
His heart needs to be unlocked very slowly and gently, so relax and enjoy each stage of your relationship as it unfolds.