The number of couples separating is sadly on an upward trend.
Today it is often believed that it is far easier to go your own ways then to stay together.
This is perhaps because divorce is now an accepted part of modern life.
There are some people who will be stuck in a cycle of marriage and separation their whole lives.
If you are currently not able to see eye to eye with your husband or wife then before you consider such a serious step you should try preventing divorce through the implementation of any of the following techniques.
1.
Be aware of change.
We all change as we get older, the person you are today is not the person you where five or ten years ago.
As we have more life experiences our interests and outlook can alter.
Change in our partners is not something that should be seen as a negative.
Try to evolve and grow together.
2.
Spend time together.
If you have been with your partner for a number of years then even though you are married and living under the same roof you may not share so much quality time in each other's company as you once did.
Make an effort to have fun together.
If it has been many years since you had a vacation then this can be the perfect way to rekindle the romance.
3.
Understand each others minds.
Arguments are natural in all relationships; they are a way we have of releasing tension and expressing ourselves clearly.
If you have been having many rows then it is important to understand the root cause.
Is it just down to a specific problem in the household or a longer lasting issue? 4.
Seek professional help.
There are many trained marriage therapists you could visit.
Such individuals can often help both sides see the situation differently.
A neutral location will help you both to express yourself more passionately.