"How to be an attractive man" is a book for men of any age who are searching for effective ways to look and feel better. 101 advice gathered on 41 pages have been divided into seven sections, applying respectively to face, body, personality, mind, clothing, hygiene & grooming and living habits.
Some time ago, being a perfectly ordinary looking guy, I was searching for methods to improve my appearance and have found an ocean of ideas, tricks, tips and advice, some obstreperous, some easy, some ridiculous, some brilliant. And some, good heavens, depending on some quasi-psychological ways to influence other people's mind, which is a complete nonsense. That search was a real food for thought, which in turn persuaded me to write this guide, because I wanted to select the methods that comply with the three superior conditions: they are simple, they are effective and they depend entirely on you.
When you want somebody to get interested in you, you usually think how to make her (or him) find you attractive. That is, you start thinking how to deal with the way they see you, and that approach is - and will always be - wrong. Many manuals have been written telling you how to deal with people. This is not one of them. Dealing with people - both men and women - is something that cannot be taught, categorized, or broken down into 101 amusing points. That's why this is not a handbook on how to deal with people, but a guide to how to deal with yourself. Because the only way for others to find you attractive is to become so. This is a book which aims to show you how to achieve that in small, quite simple, but most importantly highly effective ways.
From the readers of the original title:
"A very useful book. No stupid quasi-psychological rubbish, a lot of common sense"
Markstonge78
"Guess what - the tips worked, thanks!"
GroverDan
"This is not the first handbook on this subject I have bought but the first one I found worth buying"
Andrew_kerm
English edition © 2011
41 pages
Book available on amazon, barnes & noble and other good bookstores.
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