Aren't you tired of weeping, pleading and begging your ex to come back? Such spineless behavior will only drive your ex further and you will lose any slim chance that you may have of getting him/her back.
There is no point sitting in your room grieving and hoping that someone will come to your help.
You have to help yourself and if you just sit there and do nothing, your ex will soon find someone and move on.
Get busy and use these guaranteed tips to win your ex's affection.
Make a plan Stop staring at the wall and make a plan to win him/her back.
Consult a friend or a confidante and fine tune your plan.
You may also seek the help of a relationship expert and find out the underlying causes for the breakup.
Your plan should not only bring your ex back but do so on your terms.
List your positives and negatives The management jargon SWOT should be your guiding principle.
Do a thorough analysis of your strengths, weakness, opportunities and threats.
Improve on your strengths and work on your weakness.
Identify the opportunities that you can capitalize on and threats that will jeopardize your efforts to bring your ex back in your life.
Systematically implement the changes This is easier said than done, however, this is the minimum you will have to do to get your ex back.
Remember there are no free lunches; you have to pay the price for ignoring your irritable ways and bad habits.
Get rid of all the irritants one by one.
Spread the word around that you are seriously working on becoming a better person.
Change both internally as well as externally.
When your ex hears about your efforts he/she will want to meet if not out of love but for mere curiosity's sake.
Meet your ex and impress him/her By now your ex will no longer be as mad at you as before.
Use this to your advantage and wow him/her all over again with your new personality.
Offer the hand of friendship to your ex.
Do not rush it may take you a while and few more meetings before your ex finally relents.