There is never a relationship that is always perfect and happy, every relationship has ups and downs, even those who have been together for decades.
Very often the downs can even end a relationship, but breakups mostly happen because of miscommunication and misunderstanding.
Maybe you said something, then he said something and before you know it, the relationship has come to an end.
Getting back together with ex boyfriend The mistake that a lot of women make, to get back with their ex boyfriends, is doing everything possible to get him back.
This includes pleading and begging, but this rarely helps.
You will only make yourself look cheap and weak.
That is something you want to avoid.
The best thing you can do, after a breakup, is leaving him alone.
So both of you can get some space and time to think.
Most men are very competitive and if he finds out for example, that you are dating other men, then he will get jealous.
When you are going out with other people, then this gives your ex boyfriend a signal, that if he does not act fast someone else might take you.
Of course dating other people and going out with other people, does not have to anything serious, It is just a test to see, how he reacts.
If you can make yourself more attractive, then you also increase your chances.
You can change your wardrobe, change your haircut, lose a few pounds, if you have something to lose of course.
You know, doing a mini-makeover of yourself.
This can easily spark a new interest in your ex boyfriend, for you.