You're totally into this guy and you've vowed to wait it out until he is ready.
After all he does want a relationship eventually.
He wants to gradually work towards that.
Right now he just doesn't have the time to commit, his heart has been broken in the past, he has trust issues, why does there have to be a title on it...
and the list goes on.
To help all of you ladies out there who for some strange reason are unable to read between the lines here are ten signs you're completely wasting your time because you're a side chick.
1.
His phone never gets any service or his battery is always low.
His phone is dead all too often...
okay so maybe he has an Android phone under the crappiest mobile carrier around.
I know I do but even then my phone is always on the charger.
What's the purpose of paying a phone bill for a phone that you can't use.
Trust me he is making use of it and if he tells you its never working then this is not a good sign.
2.
You've never been to his house before.
In fact you have no idea where he lives or who he even lives with.
He tells you that he just doesn't like having guests and that no one ever goes to his house.
3.
His friends openly flirt with you.
This means that his friends have no respect for you and trust and believe they know who wifey is.
4.
You call him and he sends you a text.
If he can't call you back chances are he is occupied with someone else.
5.
He never makes plans with you for the holidays.
Whenever a holiday rolls around you always end up celebrating it on the days after it or before.
He makes sure to reserve the actually date for his number one lady.
6.
He declines invitations to special events.
If you invite him out to a close friend's birthday party or a family dinner he always seems to find a reason not to go.
This is a sign that there is no future with this man.
He doesn't want to get too close.
7.
He tells you he's not ready for a relationship.
You ask him what you are and where he see's things going and his answer is he's not looking for anything right now.
If his attitude has been whatever is whatever and he's not ready to settle down after some time now then you don't have this man's heart, but maybe someone else does.
8.
He's not on any social networking sites...
or so he claims.
Facebook has been known to destroy many relationships.
It's so easy to get caught out there and obviously he doesn't plan too.
9.
He prefers to spend quality time with you always one on one.
He tells you all of these wonderful stories about his weekend, where he went, what he did and how fun it was but you're never invited.
10.
He leaves immediately after sex.
He tells you he has to get up early for work in the morning and he doesn't have any clothes.
No cuddling, no sleep overs he's out the door.
You're definitely a side piece girl!