You know from the very moment that you break up with a woman you care about that if you could do things differently, you would.
You know that if you could find someway to make her change her mind, that the two of you would be able to weather any storms in the future.
What you don't know is if there is a way that you can make that happen in your current situation.
Getting back with an ex girlfriend can be tricky business, and if you are unsure of what you need to do to open her up to the idea of patching things up, you can be left feeling very confused and vulnerable.
You don't like to feel that way.
Maybe you don't have to.
It is possible to patch things up with an ex girlfriend, provided that you don't do anything in the time being to turn her off completely to the idea of getting back together and trying to work things out.
Here are 3 suggestions that you may want to try out if you want to be able to win her back: 1) Promises are only good if you keep them, so if you promise to make changes, then that is what you need to do.
We all need to change and adapt from time to time and sometimes you need a wake up call like a break up to let you know that there are things that you need to work on.
If you know that this is the case and you want to make a believer out of your ex girlfriend, then you need to uphold your promise to change.
You can't tell her that things are going to be different and expect her to believe you if your actions tell a different story.
2) It's okay to have wandering eyes while you are broken up with her.
It's a funny thing, but being able to picture yourself with other women can actually help you to win back your ex girlfriend.
Just being able to see that you can find someone else or that there are other women out there will help keep you from getting obsessed with your ex, and as you should already know, being obsessed with her is a bad thing.
So, don't be too shy about it if you happen to be scoping out other women from time to time.
It's natural.
3) You are not going to win her back just because you think that this is the way that it should be.
You might be able to see a clear picture in your mind where things are better than ever if you were to get back together with her, but that does not mean that she is going to feel the same way.
What you have to do is to be able to make her feel the same way and if you can do that, then there is a solid chance that you are going to be able to win her back.