It's a strange phenomenon.
Two people who until a few weeks back believed that they could not live without each other suddenly find themselves at opposite ends of the room, unable to talk to each other and unwilling to stay together.
If you can feel the shadow of a breakup looming large in your relationship, then, you need to know how to stop a breakup - NOW! The worst thing you can do in such a situation is to wait in the sidelines for the miracle to happen.
Inaction is the single biggest mistake you can make at this juncture.
If you smell a breakup, chances are that you already know the signs.
She may be refusing you in bed, or he may be spending the evening with his pals.
You may even have broken up already.
Whatever it is, you know that things are bad.
Before you dive in with the solution, evaluate whether you really want to get back with your partner.
Are your differences too big? Why do you want your partner back? These are questions that need to be answered in all honesty if you want the relationship to last.
Understand that you two have to get together and discuss the rift.
Talk about what is happening and why it is happening.
This may seem like a bitter pill, but there is simply no way out.
One of you has to take the initiative.
On the bright side, remember, most relationships just need a small nudge in the right direction for the wheels to start rolling again.
Of course, this should be done after a sufficient time has elapsed for the emotions your partner is feeling to subside.
Don't do it straight away.
Allow your partner the freedom to express what they want and respect their wishes.
If he needs to stay apart or she needs to spend the weekend with her friends, allow it.
During this crucial time, it is important to let your partner see how committed you are to saving the relationship.
However, don't appear to be weak and dependent on the relationship.
If you want to stop the breakup and get your partner back with you, you need to appear that this is something you want out of a position of strength, so don't beg for them to come back.
When it's time to do the conciliatory talk, don't hide your feelings but tone them down somewhat.
If you do that and come to the talk sufficiently prepared, you have a good chance to stop the breakup and get back with your partner.