We all occasionally look in the past and try to figure out what we've done incorrectly with a man and why he never called back.
We can also take this rejection very personally sometimes, but it's not just about you.
Guys simply experience deal breakers they just can't accept when it comes to women.
Maybe you just happened to make such a mistake.
Here's how to act so that you will never get rejected by a man that actually attracted to you.
This will allow you to escalate and constantly move on to the next step with a man, while other girls won't go through the same filter guys use.
The reason that it is so easy to beat ourselves up as women is that men can be very unclear when it comes to saying no to a woman.
He will pretend that everything is cool while it is obviously not the case.
He will become absent, distant and so on.
Keep in mind that men do struggle a bit more with rejection themselves, so they will take for granted that women do too, which is true, but they don't struggle to the same extent.
If you ever got that kind of reaction from men, it is most likely that you've experienced a deal breaker.
Deal breakers are characteristics that men absolutely don't want to deal with, no matter the woman.
These traits can be things like approval-seeking, immature, clingy, insecure, and so on.
Sometimes, we can have these behaviors completely out of our own awareness, so let's take a look at some concrete examples so you know what to do and what to avoid: -A girl from which the words "my ex" comes out a lot of her mouth.
This will turn off any man, no matter how strong is he or how attracted to you attracted he is.
He just won't put up with it.
-A girl that high maintenance in an excessive and negative way.
If you hear a man say "No matter what I'll do, I'll never please her", you know that there's a problem.
You cannot expect a man to spend time with you and feel inadequate most of the time.
-A girl that doesn't know what the words "respect" and "class" mean.
If you get invited to a restaurant, make sure that you respect the waiter, the staff and any people that might be around you.
Men think that disrespectful women are very bad news for their future.
-A girl that is always negative.
It's not very exciting for a man to be around a woman that constantly puts herself down and that doesn't like herself.
His cinderella story certainly doesn't involve assisting you in having a good opinion of yourself.
This deal breaker can occur very early in the dating process as self-esteem is a strong player in triggering attraction.
-A girl that flakes and changes plan.
Some men spend a lot of time figuring  out where to take you, how to properly send the invitation and so on, so don't flake on him without a reasonable excuse or motive.
The more you play around with him, the higher the chances that he will give up on you.
The link isn't that strong and patience can be low when two people are in the first stages of a relationship.
-A girl that acts clingy on the phone or through text messages.
If you fall in the category of harassing or get close to it, prepare yourself for a deal breaker and to never hear from him again.
Also, don't ruin the thrill of the chase for him, this is one of the parts he likes the most! -A girl that is a talking storm and that always talks about what happened to herself, instead of exchanging.
During your first dates with a man, make sure your interactions are fun and that they go back and forth between you two.
He won't really be able to connect with the drama, gossips or money problems in your life, so keep that to yourself for now.
-A girl that gets carried through life like a leaf through the wind without any control.
A man will question his relationship with you very seriously if he sees that you're easily influenced and out of control.
Trust and reliability are perhaps the number one qualities that a man seeks in a woman for a relationship.
-Last by not least, failure to listen to him is certainly a common deal breaker.
If you constantly interrupt him while he's talking, you won't go very far with him.
Indeed, deal breakers are things to watch closely for when it comes to these important first dates with a man.
He might have had bad experiences  in the past with women that had these traits so he will watch out for them forever.