The hurt of finding out that the person you are in love with wants to split up can be a lot to swallow.
You are hurt, humiliated, sad, scared, lonely and perhaps angry.
You may be wanting to know, "How can I save my relationship?" After all, this is a relationship that you have put your heart and soul into, with a person you care deeply about.
You want to remain together and not have your relationship to come to an end.
Don't lose hope.
Your relationship can regain it's fire and even become stronger if you educate yourself on the right things you can do to make it happen.
Surprisingly, there are lots of things - simple things - that can be done to restore the interest of your significant other, to get him or her to respond more passionately to you and desire to be with you and you only.
You just have to understand what those things are and how to put them on display for your lover to crave.
As human beings, we react in a positive way to some things and in a negative way to other things.
You want to get a positive response from your significant other - one that means that they want to be with you just as much, if not more than you want to be with them.
The only way to get a positive response is to make positive moves.
How can you do that? You simply need to work on you.
Not exclusively for the sake of your relationship but more importantly for the sake of building the part of you that is weak at this moment.
Here are a few tips to help you sort things out - Work on your confidence: Your confidence will play a major role in how you deal with the rest of this potential breakup or the beautiful come-back of your relationship.
You should know at all times that you will be OK with or without your lover in your life.
After all, it's YOUR life right? Only you can live it, everyone else is just a part of it.
- Find out why: Knowing exactly why your significant other wants to end your relationship will help you to plan out what your goals should in fact be.
Either to find a way to make it right or to write your little conclusion to this chapter of your life.
- Make peace with the possibility of it being over: No matter what you do or say, if your lover's mind is made up about moving on, then you may as well make your mind up to move on as well.
But this does not have to take way from the fact that you actually want the relationship to continue and grow.
This is a way of removing the actual fear of the relationship ending.
You do know that it is fear that is causing this pain, right? It is the fear of being alone, the fear of going on with life without the person you love, and more sadly, the fear of them one day saying goodbye, that's causing the pain for you.
What are you afraid of? Get rid of it! - Analyze your relationship: Put some honest thought into your relationship-where it's been and where it's potentially going.
Is the relationship worth saving? Are you only wanting this relationship because you are just used to this person being in your life? Have there been more good times than bad? If so, to what extent? When you have a clear picture of what it is you are fighting for, it will become clear to you whether you should even be fighting or not.
If you are looking for a way to save your ending relationship, you must first start within yourself and work your way out.
Your relationship to yourself and your lover are depending on this.