Why did you marry the man you are with now? What made you believe that marrying him will make you the happiest woman in the world? Have you ever thought that one day the life you dreamt with him will end up into a misery? In every relationship, there will always be the good times and the bad times.
It will just be a matter of how you handle things and make everything right for you.
A loveless marriage may have started from a misunderstanding between you and your hubby.
It may be due to a forced marriage, unfaithfulness, lack of intimacy, and sometimes unable to sexually satisfy each other.
But ladies, there are things that we can always do to save a loveless marriage and make it work out.
We can't just stay in a loveless marriage because of the law, our vows, the kids, opinion of our family nor because of financial stability.
These reasons are not enough for you to consider saving your marriage.
It's like living a lie everyday trying to make yourself believe that you are happy when you know for a fact that you are not.
It will be hard to continue a loveless marriage if our reasons of staying are not strong and valid.
Sometimes, the kids are not even enough to compensate a loveless marriage.
We may want to re-examine our feelings and remember the day when we said yes to his proposal.
Remember, whatever is happening in your marriage is a result of your choices and your husband's.
Marriage is never easy.
It needs nurturing on a daily basis.
It must be worked out by both parties.
The husband and the wife must both work on making their marriage healthy and full of love.
If your reason for a loveless marriage is because your union was arranged by the elders, try being honest to your spouse and talk to him about what you feel.
Together, you may discover reasons like traits, hobbies, or things that you may realize both of you are interested in.
Look at his positive characteristics.
And you'll never know, you might fall for him because of that.
One more thing to save a loveless marriage is by assessing yourself.
Try looking at what you want, what makes you happy, what gives you fulfillment and what makes you as a person.
You'll not be asking these things from him rather you will identify these positives things about you and share it with him.
It's about learning to share what makes you happy with your hubby.
From there, you will notice changes in your relationship and the love for each other will start burning.
A loveless marriage is a result of circumstances that we face with our partners.
But as such, we can also make it a love-full marriage by becoming more open, understanding and patient.
We cannot solve everything with just a blink of the eye nor with the snap of our fingers.
It takes time and a lot of effort to save a loveless marriage and make it a loving marriage.