When was the last time you praised your partner for being average or below average? Remember the time when they were running late. What did you say? What about the time when they totally forgot to do something very important? I'm sure if you're like most of us, whatever was said had a lot of passion involved. But it wasn't indicative of your true feelings for your partner. In a instant, you allowed Emotions of the Moment to seize control of logic. We do it all the time. But we vow afterwards to never let it happen again. If we could just take back all those words, everything would be better. Really, it's been said for every negative comment you make, it takes ten positive comments to counteract that one negative comment. (I know what you're thinking: You're thinking I'm in a hole and can't dig my way out.) We're gonna get you out and keep you out. Do these Five Steps everyday and you will Increase Passion In Your Marriage or your Relationship. 

Passion: What's the meaning of the word? Webster defines it as: intense, driving, or overmastering feeling or conviction. (That's really strong)

Let's Get Started and Make a Lifelong Commitment To Being Passionate about our Marriage... 

Step 1:  Tell your partner how truly beautiful they are. Ok, it's sounds crazy and you're thinking it won't work. But remember, you have to follow all Five Steps in order to increase the passion. If it feels uncomfortable saying it, we've got a lot of work to do. What you may not understand about this simple concept is, the more you say it, the better you feel about saying it. Have you ever noticed if you're comfortable doing something, you tend to spend a lot of time doing it. So sell out on this and increase passion in your marriage. First thing in the morning I want you to say to your partner, I'm so happy you chose me and today will be the greatest day of our lives. Make sure they're up and awake. You wouldn't want them to think they're dreaming. About lunch time send them a text: (thinking about you). Evening: tell them how much you missed not being with them. It does not matter what they say or do, please continue doing step one. You'll see them becoming more passionate. 

Step 2: Listen to your partner. Really listen and they will tell you exactly what they need. Listening is an art. We all want our marriages to be passionate, do listen real good. We all want to be heard. It's obvious we all can't talk at the same time. Remember when you first met,  you couldn't wait to hear from your partner. You anticipated their call. You were so thrilled to hear their voice. It was like the warmth of a fireplace on a cold winter's day. Listen and find the key to their Heart. The passion will increase.

Step 3: Plan an activity that pleases them, don't be selfish. If your partner enjoys a certain activity, make plans to go and enjoy that activity. I want to emphasize enjoy. Be passionate about it. Please don't go with a bad attitude. It will only make matters worse. Learn to appreciate the things that bring joy into their life. You don't have to love the activity. You only have to love your partner.

Step 4: Treat your partner with Love and Respect. Don't talk down to them.Talk about the things you love about them. Talk about how intelligent they are. Talk about things they do well. Don't talk about anything that they're incompetent at. You want to build them up.  Remember, you reap what you sow. Sow love and respect and you'll reap the harvest. When you begin with passion, it can't help but increase.

Step 5: Most important step. Be sincere, be passionate and complete each step. This is not about being passionate for the sake of your partner. This is about the total transformation of you. If you want change to come, you must take small steps to create change.Take small passion steps. Be sincere and complete each step. Change begins with you. Passion begins with you. This is the foundation of recreating Emotions of the Moment. Remember: You are what you eat. Start eating Passion food today!! See passionate results tomorrow!!  

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