Being married can feel like a full time job at times. It's challenging to live with the same person for years and in some cases a woman's feelings for her husband will shift over time. It's difficult to know what to do when you fall out of love with your husband. Should you leave the relationship, seek a divorce and try to find someone new to spend your time with? Or is it a better choice to work on rebuilding your marriage? If you're not ready to end the relationship with your husband, there are things you can do rediscover the love you two once shared.

When you fall out of love with your husband consider what may have caused your feelings to change. One common culprit that is at the root of a lot of martial strife is resentment. If you and your husband have children, you may feel that he turns to you to take care of the children more. Perhaps the brunt of the child rearing has fallen into your lap and you've had to forsake your career or interests to care for your family while your husband's life hasn't changed at all. If this is indeed the case you need to talk to your husband about what you're feeling and you need to delegate more. Give him more responsibility and let him take on the fatherly role more often. It will help balance that aspect of your marriage.

Another related problem that many couples struggle with is the issue of losing their identities as a couple in favor of being parents. When two people become co-parents it changes the dynamic of their relationship. They often drift apart because they are consumed with being mom and dad. When you fall out of love with your husband because of this, you can remedy it by spending more time as a couple. Enlist the help of family and friends with the children so you two have the opportunity to reconnect as husband and wife.