Think that the "No Contact Rule" is the silliest advice you've ever heard? Think again, the No Contact Rule is the ONLY way to get your ex back.
Too many times, people try to force things, try to immediately begin repairing a relationship gone wrong, only to end up heartbroken.
They try to get their relationships back on track while one or both parties is still too angry to be amenable to working things out.
All you have to do is think about it for a minute.
Both you and your ex are very hurt and angry about things that have been said and the reasons for the break up.
What happens when two angry people try to have a conversation is that it usually devolves into another unhelpful and disastrous argument.
This will only make things worse! You cannot go from angry to bliss in 2.
5 seconds! There really does need to be a "cooling off" period after a bad break up.
It takes time to get over the hurt of things that were said and done before you and your ex can come together and feel comfortable around one another again.
Once those negative feelings begin to ease, you will begin to miss each other and want to have contact again.
Just remember - you didn't fall out of love, it was an argument that led to the break up.
Nasty things were said and feelings were hurt and with due time, as these feelings fade, you can begin to rebuild your relationship on solid ground.
But you have to allow those wounds to heal and anger to subside before trying to regain the solid footing your relationship once had.
Surely you can see now that the "No Contact Rule" is essential to getting your ex back.
You need to have some time to cool off, to miss them, and want them in your life again, and they need the same thing.
This is the only way to go to get your love life back on track again.