Well here you are-home alone following another date that turned sour.
Maybe you are saying, "Why am I doing this?" Deep down inside your true being-what you really want is to get him back. If this is true and you are really sure, then I have some ideas that may help you.

When the breakup happened was your first thought to date other guys? But even after you dated a few times are you still thinking-I want him back! What can I do to rekindle that relationship?

A message from your surrogate grandpa

Well, yes, girl, there are a number of things you can do and I have some solid ideas that have helped a bunch of women just like you. Think of this old codger as your surrogate grandpa-someone who does really care about you and really wants to help.

Five tips to help get him back

1. Separate yourself from the crowd. You won't find the happiness you deserve by hanging around with any guy willing to be with you. You can save time and energy by using this time to get your mind working for you-not against you. You need to be preparing a mindset that includes body, mind and soul tactics. Dating some other guy isn't filling the emptiness-is it?

2. The best approach is the soft approach by not chasing him. Surely you can see that filling his inbox won't bring him back, nor will repeat phone calls. You must maintain your dignity at all costs. On the other hand you don't want to be his doormat either. If you have been stalking him-well shame on you. I know women who have ended up in the slammer for doing just that!

Remain aloof, but not snooty. He will come to respect you for being your own person, and you will have a much better chance of getting him back.

3. Think about all of the things that drew you to him initially. Make a list of his good points. Concentrate on these instead of harboring a grudge or tossing around accusations. If you truly want him back, these are good things to do.

4. When the opportunity presents itself, and it eventually will if you keep your cool-try suggesting a change of environment. Trying out new things and places will help to shove the past way behind you. Make it a point to meet new friends. You may even suggest a new hobby for both of you. Think about this-what would you most enjoy doing with him. If you can avoid the same old routines-changing your environment and acquaintances will also help to bury the past.

You must avoid rejoining those old patterns and pastimes. Maybe you will need to rein-back the relationship. Just take it a day at a time. You want that closeness you once had but you need to give it time to restore itself.

5. Think of yourself as a writer-someone who is crafting a script for the rest of your lives. Be considerate and understanding when you are together. Both of you need to map out a course as to where you both want to go.

Take Action Now

I do hope these five tips have gotten you thinking about ways to bring him back. Much more information is available just for the asking. To learn more visit my blog:
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