So you're going through a break up at the moment? I feel your pain, seriously I do.
It's one of the most painful experiences anybody can go through.
I've been through my fair share of break up's, and there were times when I thought I couldn't carry on with my life.
Love hurt's! No question about it.
It's likely that the break up is your fault.
I say this because you're searching for break up advice.
And every single break up that I went through, it was my own fault.
It was down to me being selfish, and only caring about myself.
Chances are though, your ex wasn't too perfect either.
So it doesn't matter too much, all that matters is that you know how to put it right and how to win your ex back.
The first easy step is to stop feeling sorry for yourself.
I know a lot of people who sit around the house beating themselves up about what they did wrong, after a break up.
Get out of the house, it'll do you the world of good.
You could go shopping and treat yourself to some new clothes or whatever will make you happy.
Heck, you could even hit up a few nightclubs and flirt with some people.
Harmless flirting is fine, and it doesn't have to lead to anything.
And it will boost your confidence like nothing else.
Step two is understanding what went wrong.
I said at the start of the article that it doesn't matter too much about why your relationship went sour.
But it really does.
After you've spent some time enjoying yourself for a week or two, you'll be able to think clearly.
So understand why your relationship went wrong.
What were your faults? Fix them.
Step three is the most important step.
After two or three weeks you'll want to get in contact with your ex and ask them how they're doing.
Chances are they'll tell you that they're doing fine, even when it's likely they're upset too.
Ask them if they'll meet up with you for a coffee, or casual lunch.
This is where you apologise for the mistakes you made in the relationship, then simply ask for another chance.
Do it calmly and don't beg! Chances are they'll say yes, and you'll be on your merry little way.
But if they say no, simply tell them that it's fine and their happiness is priority to you.
Then after a few days watch them crawl back to you!