There are many factors that have caused the increase in divorce rates over the years.
It could be the want for instant gratification, the seemingly simple option of divorce posed by the media or society alike, or the mere lack of patience as a result of everything combined.
Divorce is never pretty or pleasant; it is long, painful and dreary.
If you are double-minded about your marriage then you must consider that working on your marriage is far easier and rewarding than breaking it up.
If you want to save your marriage from divorce, I suggest you start now, and these are a few expert tips to get you started: 1) Talking and sharing first.
Put your spouse on top priority.
Talk about your relationship with him before you tell your best friend.
Give him the prime cut of your conversational and social skills.
Letting him know he is exclusive and precious to you will help him ease into opening up to you in return.
2) Stocking up on reserves.
Just as you would stock up the freezer before being snowed in for the weekend, it is far more essential to stock up on your relationship before a storm as well.
By that I mean you must sit down together and figure out activities that both of you enjoy doing simply because they leave you feeling happy afterwards.
Think of activities you can do together, and on your own.
If you are already following the previous step and sharing things first with your spouse, chances are you will come refreshed from that happy time and affect him positively with your energy, as he would with you.
3) Don't ask and don't wonder.
The most important factor about moving on in a relationship is the solemn commitment to yourself that you will not look back under any circumstances.
Do not ask your spouse of mistakes he made in the past, and do not wonder whether he will repeat them or not.
Envision the relationship that you want each step of the way and that will affect your focus and your internal thoughts as well.
The above steps all contain a common theme of the intent, which is of saving your marriage and living a healthy and happy life with your spouse.
If at any point you doubt the validity of these steps, go back to your ultimate purpose and ask yourself whether these steps will help or hinder you.
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