By understanding why a man leaves a relationship, you can use this knowledge to get your ex back without struggling or chasing after him.
Not only is it important to learn why men leave, it's also crucial you learn how to avoid making the mistakes that will only drive him away from you.
Men want to feel respected and admired.
Most men don't leave because they want a younger, prettier or thinner woman.
Many men complain that their ex won't stop nagging them.
He's feels that he has a lot to offer and it drives him crazy that you don't see all the effort he puts into the relationship.
Does this mean you can't say what's on your mind? Of course not.
Just make sure you do it in a way that still shows you appreciate his good qualities.
So what are the first steps you need to take in order to get your ex back? Understand the it's human nature to want we can't have.
If you make yourself too available right now, there will be a tendency for him to take you for granted.
He knows he can have you whenever he wants and he will take his time and continue to do whatever he feels like doing...
including seeing other women.
Instead of fighting human nature, work with it.
Make yourself unavailable and show you're no longer chasing him.
Now that the pressure is gone, he is free to start missing you again.
Because he can no longer take you for granted, it is very likely that he will naturally be attracted towards you.
There is more to getting back together than just taking a break.
This is a crucial first step however.
By laying this foundation you set the stage for the other things you must to in order to get your ex back.