There could be many reasons why you want to call a guy.
Maybe you want to talk him right away, or perhaps you didn't give him your number.
In any case you need to know a few things before you pick up the phone.
Before you call, make sure you realize that if you exchanged numbers, it means that you two had a great (or decent at the very least) interaction, which implies that he wants to talk to you again.
Got this? Because realizing this should give you all the confidence you need to dial his number.
It is possible that you still feel a little confused about what to say so read on for information on what you should be doing.
Tip #1: Timing Although it is highly debated, the truth is that it doesn't really matter how long you wait before you call.
The only thing I'll tell you is not to wait to long, because he'll think you're not interested and he might feel hurt.
What is most important though is that you figure out of a good time to call.
The reason is you won't be able to talk if he's too busy, which just made the whole effort of calling...
well, pointless.
By the way, make sure you too are free and in a good mood.
Tip #2: Opener I always recommend that you have something ready to say when you start talking, sort of an excuse to call.
It will get the conversation going and it will also make much less awkward.
For example, you could say you just went past the bar where you met, or anything like that.
Once you're past the opener, just act natural.
Tip #3: Ending the call Maybe you didn't get the right timing and was busy.
Do not keep talking! You just tell him you will talk later and hang up.
Or perhaps you have been talking.
You need to remember to cut the conversation before it stalls.
Only that way you'll be able to resume it later on.
The delay also creates some mystery, which is really good.
Anyway, be sure to be the one who says "we'll talk more later" first.
Finally, if it's not going well, cut it right away and start again later.
It can happen, but it doesn't mean you've lost him, just wait for another occasion to call.
Tip #4: Making you two a great couple Try to bring up how you two have a great time together.
Telling him this makes him feel responsible for the positive outcome, which implies he was good with you.
He'll appreciate it.
Finally, let loose of your anxieties and enjoy the conversation!