To be honest, I am also like many other people afraid of facing failure. Failure is horrible but somehow it is essential. If you have been a successful businessman or succeeded in your career, you may be a bit afraid of totally fail again. However, the point is "Does a failure fear failure?"
If we only divide the result of an event as "Failure" and "success", then we only have two possible results. From this point if you are not success in you life, then you are a failure at all. There are no intermediates like a bit success or a bit failure.
Many people are afraid of failures and fear facing their failures, this obviously does not help in solving problems and even will affect the development of their career. If you agree the point I mentioned above, we have admitted we are failures if we still did not reach our goal or got what we want. Therefore, there are nothing to be scared in failure since we'veĀ already been a failure. In Logic, failure fears failure is a contradiction which is illogical.
Failure does not fear failure. People are only afraid to confess to their egos saying I am a failure.
I do not fear to admit I am a failure at this stage, since I still did not succeed in anything, I even though can't make enough money to support my life. I did not have any physical assets, no money, no house, no Fararri, no beautiful dresses. Because I have nothing now, this gives me no stress but brave and desire to chase success.
To admit to ourselves, we are a failure do not mean to belittle and depreciate ourselves but let us know more about ourselves and facing the problems now. Once we know the cruel truth, what can scare and stop us to fight back? Nothing! Afraid of being failure is a wall to stop us fighting back, but now the wall isn't here. There is no more excuse to stop us chasing our success.
Failure is not a dangerous monster, the most dangerous monster is most of us did not want to facing the cruel truth, we are afraid of our fragile self-esteem will be broken and then persuade ourselves that we are still okay!
Failure does not fear failure. People are only afraid to confess to their egos saying I am a failure.
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