It is understandable that to win back a love requires you to put in a lot of effort and yet there is no guarantee that your love one will get back together with you.
If you have spent your time thinking " what if...
", continue regretting and blaming yourself for letting your loved one leave, it is time to stop it and figure out a way to get your love one back again.
Firstly, you should start by locating them.
Use all the resources that are available for you to locate them.
Then, the next thing you should do is to find out their situation.
To find out how they are, send a letter or an email, let them know that you are curious about them and ask what is going on.
Apart from the above, let them know a little about your situation.
Whatever you do, do not let them know that you are in the hunt because you need to make it seems like your interest is mild curiosity.
If your love one is still available, then you should start off by being friend.
Let the friendship goes naturally.
After sometime, move up to a further level by giving them your number.
In a short period of time, you will soon find that the friendship bond has moved on to an upper level, seeing each other in person become so natural, and it will not take much time for your love to realize that you are still the person she wants.
To win back a love, it may take some time, but the process of it is definitely worth waiting.