Over the years, and especially when I was in college I went through a couple of really hard break ups. My friends also went through a few nasty splits. I've seen what works and what definitely doesn't. I have won back my man and I have also failed miserably! I think we all do at some stage! But if you are seriously keen - well you obviously are if you are asking for tips to get my man back [http://www.endbreakupstoday.info] - and if you are willing to take advice from a non professional but someone who has experience then get a pen and paper and get writing!

Here are 4 tips to get my man back

1. Don't Make Contact

Don't Beg for him to come back.
Put down that phone, quit emailing and don't leave voice mail messages. I promise you that you are ruining your every chance and pushing him far away. Let the break up be - at least let it appear that way in his eyes. In the mean time you must start thinking of your actual plan to get him interested in you again.

2. Play Hard To Get

If you really apply tip 1, you will most likely find your ex calling you again. You know men don't you? They like to hunt and not be hunted! So now, if and when he calls, you don't fall for his every word and put off meeting up with him again if he asks you. Hold on for the first few times, but don't come across as cold.

3. Be Strong

What a cliche! I know, I know, but you need to get a grip on your emotions. You are hurting real bad now and probably crying bucket loads. There is time for that too. But make sure you have great supportive people around you who can empathize and who don't pull you down. You need to have people to distract you from thinking about your ex every minute. Now, if you ex starts to see that you are getting on with life and are looking really confident and strong, his curiosity will get turned on again. You will become attractive to him. Can you see where this is going?

4. Make Personal Changes

This can be the hardest but you really need to check if something you were doing or not doing might have caused the relationship to grow cold and eventually end. If you identify that you were part of the reason and are prepared to change, then this will work to your advantage in the future.

These 4 tips to get my man back [http://www.endbreakupstoday.info] may seem really simple on the surface and you are probably wondering if they work. Well, I can only speak from experience. If you are desperate to get your ex back, there are some super important things you need to do along the way, so that your "hard to get" attitude doesn't push him too far away. The timing in this whole process is ultra important. Doing this wrong could end the relationship for ever.