If you want to get your girlfriend back, you need to approach the situation delicately. This is not an easy task for men.

After a breakup, emotions run high and doing or saying even the slightest wrong thing at the wrong time can push your ex girlfriend away forever. Chances are you will get the opportunity to win her back, but you must approach her at the right time under the right circumstances.

Here are 3 places you should never approach her unannounced after a breakup if you want her back.

In order to get your girlfriend back, you may already know the importance of giving her space and not contacting her for a few weeks after the breakup. However, you should also avoid approaching her unannounced in certain places or you risk losing her for good.

The first place you should never approach her if you want her back is her work. Many guys make this mistake.

When your girlfriend won't talk to you after a breakup, you may be tempted to show up at her work to talk. You know she'll be there at a certain time and you think if you can just talk to her, then she'll take you back. Avoid doing this at all costs. Your breakup is a private affair and taking it to her work will only make her resent you. You risk ruining her day and making her miserable.

If things get out of hand, you also risk looking like a total jerk not only in front of her, but also in front of all her co-workers. She's probably already having a hard time convincing herself to go to work when she's hurt and confused, so don't make it worse on her or she'll end up hating you. Plus, she's busy concentrating on work and won't be in the right frame of mind to talk.

The second place to avoid approaching her unannounced is her home. When you want to get your girlfriend back, you may be tempted to drive by her house to see if her car is in the driveway. If it is, you may be tempted to go knock on the door and try to convince her to let you in.

Avoid these temptations. Remember, to get her back you need to pull and attract her toward you, not try to push your way back into the relationship. Going to her house only makes you look like a stalker. It's creepy.

The third place you should never approach your ex girlfriend unannounced is any place you know she hangs out. You know she has Yoga class on Friday at 6 PM, so you may be tempted to try and see if you can catch her as she's leaving class. Just like approaching her at work, you risk creating a scene and embarrassing her by taking your breakup public. She will hate you for this and she won't be in the mood to talk when she feels you're following her everywhere.

The truth is, if you want to get your girlfriend back, you should never try to track her down to talk unless she has agreed to meet you somewhere. Trying to push your way into a reconciliation will never work. Instead, you need to learn the right way to win her back that magnetically attracts and pulls her toward you.