How to win your man back from another woman? The bigger issue is whether or not you should get back together with your ex, not if it could be done. Sometimes the loss we feel from failed relationships can do serious damage to the id and the ego. After a break up you may be thinking emotionally and may want back what you once had. Maybe you want to get together just to break the other person's heart and prove a point. It's important to remove emotion from this dilemma and instead focus on practical thinking.
Do you really love this person? Were you happy when you were with him or her? Were there more good times than bad? It's easy for a heartbroken lover to focus on the good times of a relationship and block out the bad times-even if bad times made up for 80% of the total relationship! Early courtship is always the most enjoyable time for two lovers. It's after the first flush of romance ends that your love is really tested.
You also have to consider if your ex still loves you. Has he or she moved on? Will renewing your relationship be beneficial for him or her or is it all about saving your ego and satisfying your desires? Sometimes you have to love a person so much that you are willing to let them go.
Also bear in mind that some people are just addicted to drama. Remember the Drama Queen dating personality? He/she thrives on drama and may enjoy toying with your emotions by dating other people or going through hot and cold "cycles" of romance. If you enjoy the drama just as much then you probably do have to stoop to that person's level and behave just as immaturely. Hopefully, you have more self-respect than that. Love is a treasure. Relationships, even short-term romps just for fun, are always bliss. Isn't real life too short for endless drama? These issues are the first things that you should consider as you contemplate on how to win your man back from another woman.
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