I will assure you even at the outset that whatever might have gone wrong between you and your boyfriend, leading to a break up, it is possible to learn how to get your ex boyfriend back.
But you need to take the right steps.
Any good solution will have to start with a question.
Ask these questions and answer them yourself honestly: 1) Think of the issue that caused the breakup.
Is it so important to merit the attention it is getting? 2) Is it necessary to argue about this matter right now? 3) What can you do to nip the argument in the bud and move on? Is there something you can do, by relenting from your stand? 4) To go to the basics, was the matter worth arguing about, in the first place? If your answer to one or more of the above questions is a clear 'no', then allow the issue to fade away.
Argument is often the villain and if you can settle an argument, many break-ups can be set right.
You will be surprised to know that many break-ups happen on arguments, which are unnecessary in the first place.
Once you have tackled the irritant called the argument, then the next step in learning how to get your ex boyfriend back is to stop worrying about how you are being perceived by others.
What other people think of you is of no consequence.
Your focus should be on letting your concerns go, so that your real self will manifest itself in a natural way.
This will lead to your ex boyfriend perceiving you for who you are, rather than for who you are trying to be.
The vital step in learning how to get your ex boyfriend back is to distance yourself from your boyfriend emotionally.
Though this may sound bizarre, this will help you getting yourself relieved of the stress created by the break up.
When both of you feel calm and relaxed, true understanding between you two will surface.
Keeping a little bit of distance helps more than it could hurt.
You can be in contact and can also be having positive conversation.
But take care to keep the emotions out of the situation at the same time.
When you and your ex are able to view the issue that led to the breakup in a calm mindset, you can sit together and work towards a solution.