Social graces are still alive and kicking, simply because the first impression is a lasting impression, and how to be polite is very important, even though our lifestyles are more relaxed than they once were, it is still vital in the dating game.

Learning how to attract women can be difficult for the shy male, interacting with women some men find they stumble over words when talking to them, and disappear into their shells, simply because they do not know how to approach a woman and ask for a date.

The more you get out of the house, the more likely you are to meet women, get involved in a hobby that you can partake on a regular basis, get involved with social groups, and if you are shy, slowly, slowly you will be more comfortable and learning how to talk to women will come second nature to you, especially if your hobby involves females, and you meet up on a regular basis.

To get into the dating game a shy man needs to put his best foot forward, and when he does get into conversation he can show a girl that he is an intelligent man, women are turned on by men they believe have status, and social approval, and are attracted to men they feel are slightly higher up on the social ladder.  A man does not necessarily have to have any of this power or status, just talk to her in the same way that these sort of men would talk to her.

The secret of how to get girls falling over you is to take control, a woman is attracted to a man who is not afraid to lead her, and while talking to a woman, make sure you have an even balance in the conversation; after all it's not all about you.

Show a girl you are a fun person, laughter makes the world go around, tease her a little, or talk about emotional stuff, like childhood memories and what her future ambitions are, this will open up her emotional floodgates and of course you will learn a lot more about her, furthermore if you want to be successful with the opposite sex this is how to talk to girls.

The success of how to get a girlfriend is to actually get a girl interested in you enough to want to pursue you, be interested in her and make it clear you want to see her again; it is not that difficult to get phone numbers, dates and even get a little closer.

A spokesman for The Social Attraction Academy said "in the dating game men are supposed to lead, but if they don't have the confidence even if they have the social graces they will fall short on how to pick up girls.  This is where the academy can help the shy guy; we can help them develop their skills with women and dating.  We can show them how to develop their attraction skills, which will improve their core confidence and realize their potential".

You may have the social graces but do you have the courage to pursue a girl you are attracted to, all you need is self belief and confidence in yourself and you can climb mountains.

For further information visit:  www.socialattraction.co.uk