If you're putting a lot of effort into understanding men, then you might have overlooked this seemingly unimportant facet of being in a happy relationship: not having enough passion.
This is a universal problem that affects both men and women, but for the purposes of this article, I'll talk about something that turns me off about my partner.
People who are genuinely passionate about anything are magnetic.
They don't care that you don't like them.
They don't care that you don't like them.
All they care about is whatever they're passionate about and that sort of attitude tends to polarize people.
What do I mean? Well think about someone like Justin Bieber.
He loves his music.
He has girls who would travel around the world just to be in his concerts.
He also has his haters and boy do they hate.
Passion breeds emotion and emotion is what keeps a relationship alive.
Passion is like that spark that ignites a relationship and if you're ever luck enough to find someone who's is passionate about something as much as you are, don't let him go.
Having passion in something that your man is into will give you confidence since you're being yourself.
You also basically aren't trying at all to get a man; the man who is magnetized by your passion will come to you instead.
My girlfriend is passionate, just not in the things that I'm passionate in.
That's OK but.
It's better than wasting her life away, not having a cause to live for at all.
I once read a case where a woman couldn't find a man via "traditional" dating, you know, bars, clubs, etc.
A friend advised her to follow her passion, so she joined a whale conservation group.
She was so passionate about protecting whales that it was all she cared about.
She found someone else who shared that passion and they've been together ever since.
By simply following your passion, everything else will come in tow, including the man of your dreams.
If you've been getting better at understanding men, you'll know that we can't help but be attracted to a woman who is passionate about something in her life.
That's because we tend to admire you first before you feel attracted to you.
That is a secret that you're never going to read in any relationship help book.
No one is going to teach you how to be passionate.
You've got to find your own passion and go out and chase it.
This will make men chase you because they admire who you are.
This admiration will create attraction in the long run.