Most guys have tried to do this and learned the hard way that it was nearly impossible to turn a female friend into a girlfriend. It's not hard to fall into the trap of becoming a woman's friend when really, you want to be much more than that. Spend a little time with a woman and don't make any kind of move, and you will end up in the friend zone really quickly.

I've heard some guys declare that it is IMPOSSIBLE to turn a female friend into a girlfriend. You probably have heard the same thing.

So is it true?

First off, I will have to say that the obvious answer is that you should learn how to make it so that she never sees you as being just a friend. You ALWAYS want to have the option of turning her into your girlfriend, especially if you are deeply attracted to her.

From my experience, I have seen that it definitely can be done, as I have done this on more than one occasion.

Here are some tips on how to turn a female friend into YOUR girlfriend:

1. You have to create distance between you and her as soon as possible.

The more times that you hang around a woman as just a friend and nothing more, the deeper you get entrenched into the friend zone. This is the hardest part for most guys to do, because you probably feel REALLY good when you are around her. Well, women can be addicting like a drug at times, and you have to get off of her as soon as you possibly can. Don't be afraid that you will end up losing her, because the reality is, you wanted her to be your girlfriend and anything else is just going to make you feel unsatisfied.

2. You have to focus your thoughts and your feelings on more females than just her.

You will NEVER be able to turn her into your girlfriend if she is your only focus. The more you act like your world revolves around her, the more you are going to end up going back to the same behaviors that got you in the friend zone in the first place. Even though you really want to get with her, it's only healthy to have eyes for other women as well. Besides, she needs to see that you could easily be taken away from her if she is going to change the way that she sees you.

3. You MUST be willing to come back into her life as anything BUT a friend.

When you "reappear" into her life, you have to make sure that it is anything but as a friend, If you call her up and get her to hang out with you, you have to be able to flirt with her, chance rejection, and make your move. It's the only way, because if you go back to just hanging out... you are going to go back into the friend zone and it will be your own fault.