Is your marriage heading for the rocks? Thank God you see it and you are willing to save your marriage.
Most people have filed the divorce papers long before they realized they have made a big mistake.
Marriages are always a battle zone of challenges and it takes the brave to stay and work it all out.
Since you are decided to save your marriage, the job is going to be easier for you.
Below are some tips that could help you in saving your marriage.
1.
Find a serene place to think.
You will need a pen and paper on which you are going to draw and complete analysis of events that has transpired before now.
I believe you loved your spouse before you agreed to go to the altar.
I know you saw something worth living with in him or her before you decided to give your hand in marriage.
2.
Draw up the list of the good against the bad.
Every relationship has challenges but that's no problem if the good experiences in the marriage are a whole lot more than the bad.
Look for the evil things that you cannot live with for a day in that marriage.
Also look for the best things that make you think saving your marriage will be better.
If you can get more of the good than the bad, then you have huge chances of saving your marriage 3.
Call up your spouse for a dialogue.
If you are still living under the same roof, it is better but if not, you can invite him or her over.
I have found out that divorces are not always the wish of most married people.
They divorce mostly so that they will not look like the weak one.
You do not have to play to that script.
Saying sorry where you are wrong does not make you a weakling, in fact, it makes you the brave.
Spearhead the change, say sorry and watch your spouses reaction, it may just all end there.
4.
If your spouse is still very angry or bitter, do not allow arguments.
Love can win the hardest of battles.
If it is truly love that you have for your spouse, you will say sorry and mean it.
Forget about your spouse's mistakes for now, you can settle that later as you know that two wrongs will never make a right.
This is how to save your marriage.
I have seen the tips above work like miracle in most people's lives.
A simple sorry can save your marriage so do not be too proud to say it when you have to.