You don't want to be the woman that seems to go unnoticed by men anymore. That lifestyle is the pits, and you do not want to have that experience any longer. At the same time, you don't want to get the wrong kind of attention from men, either. Kind of sounds like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place, doesn't it?

Well, you can get the attention from men that you are looking for, and it does not have to be negative in any way. After all, any woman who decided to just leave the house in a string bikini would attract male attention, but that would not be the kind that is going to get you the respect and the relationship that you deserve.

1. Wear sexy, but classy clothing. Think of it like this. Men have fawned over the sexy secretary look for ages, but what is it really? A blouse, a blazer, a skirt and some stockings. You don't have to wear clothing that is too revealing or that lacks class to come off as being sexy. And sexy will get a man's attention any day of the week, no matter what.

2. Make sure that you have the right body language.Confidence is appealing to both men and women, and you don't want to come across like a woman that has no confidence at all. It's true that you can still get attention without the confidence, but chances are, it's not going to be from the kind of quality man that you really are after.

3. Learn how to tease a man in a provocative way. Men like to be teased, and when you do so in a very provocative way, you can easily make a man practically have to pay attention to you. When you do this right, you can get him to chase you around like a puppy dog if that's what you like. The point is, do not make yourself look too eager to get his attention. That is not going to get the reaction that you are after.