When you learn that your marriage is over, it's one of the worst experiences of your life.
You feel that all the years you spent with your spouse was a complete waste and that you should have never have been with them.
But then the much lighter side of your mind thinks that you still love them and would do anything to take them back even though your marriage seems to be over.
If you're confident that you still love your spouse, then I suggest that you take time to talk to them.
Be completely honest with them and see if you can come to some sort of mutual agreement with regard to what you should do.
Something obviously went wrong in your marriage so take time to discuss this.
It is crucial that you and your spouse talk about these problems and decide if fixing them is worth it.
The problems have been stirring up for years because you both didn't take time to fix them when they were raised.
If your marriage seems to be over it is important for you both to salvage what is left.
If you and your spouse talk things through and come to some sort of agreement that you would rather separate than try to fix the failed marriage, then do this otherwise you will waste your future life.
By agreeing to end the marriage, you have the chance to remain good friends, and you never know you may click again in the future.
Who knows what lies in the future! When your marriage seems to be over, assess the situation and see if it is worth fixing it or whether you would just like to call it quits.
Make sure you speak to your spouse thoroughly and take it one step at a time.