If you're reading this article, chances are, you've been trying to become more popular in school, and it's not working.
I'm sure you've tried several things to become more popular, but for one reason or another, people are not opening up to you.
If you know what I'm talking about, then I want to share a secret with you...
When it comes to becoming more popular in college, there is an external strategy and internal...
You may have been working very hard on external strategies - maybe you've tried to be more social, or you've gone to parties or joined a frat, but if you haven't worked on your inner self, all of your efforts will be in vain.
People treat you how you subtly TELL them to treat you.
If you are treated like an "uncool" person, that's because you haven't worked on your inner self and somehow, you act like one.
In college, popular people universally have "higher status" than less popular people.
Status defined, is your social standing within the hierarchy of the social scene.
Status is the number one concept to understand and master if you want to become more popular.
You have to believe that you are a high status person, or none of the stuff that you do to become more popular will work.
People will look at you and think that you are a too try hard.
If you want to become more popular, you have to change your self image to that of a high status person.
A self image is how you see yourself on the inside.
People live up to their expectations of themselves no matter what.
If you have a self image of a loser - you will always find a way to be one.
If you have the self image of a high status cool guy, then that's going to be you.
The first step comes from learning to base your opinion of yourself on your own standards, and not the opinions of other people.
Unless you do this, you will never be able to have a high status self image, because the minute someone disagrees with you (which will be often) you will snap back into a low status self.
Learn to cultivate the qualities of a high status person.
High status people move slower than everyone else.
Their voices are typically the loudest within the social group.
High status men have loose body language.
They keep their composure at all times.
They never whine, complain, make excuses or justifications.
They do not seek approval.
They are VERY sure of themselves.
They take the lead.
High status people exert the least effort within the social group.
High status people can handle hearing and saying no to people, and above all, they have extremely high self respect, and they do not tolerate disrespect from others.
Change your self image to a high status person and you will become very popular in college.
Here are some questions to consider, while you work on your self image.
If you answer anything other than "Of course," then there's work to be done: Do you think you deserve to be around other high status people? If you throw a party, do you think other people will want to show up? Do you think that most people are fun and good natured? Is the world a great place to be? Are you a lovable person? Are you capable of hearing and telling other people "no"? Are you a high status person? Do you really believe you deserve to date exceptionally hot women/men? Do you have any excuses as to why you are not popular? What is it? Answer this honestly: What benefit do you get from choosing to believe that excuse? Improving your self image is crucial, yet only a piece of the puzzle.
You also have to have the social skills, and lifestyle of a cool person if you want to become more popular in college permanently.
I go into much further detail on improving your self image in order to become more popular in college.
Be sure to learn more on my blog.